"Dont worry pumpkin. Apply for divorce. You deserve better. I am there for you always. I will take care of you."
I might be assuming here. But this is an underlining thought in quite a few men like me. It is never a question of whether I can provide for her. Of course, I can.
Being a 59 years old does not necessarily mean I can't have my wishes and desires to long for, in my life.
She is my only child. And these traditions have made me marry her off early to a puny little coward and separated my dear one away from me.
When she was five years old, my hands would spontaneously cover the table's sharp and wicked edge to avoid her head getting hurt. There is a part of my soul that lives for my daughter. Always. It is with so much affection that I brought up my girl child.
Anyone advicing me would have told me to make mends in the small fight my daughter had with her husband and to urge her to continue the life. But I might be selfish here to encourage her to take the divorce and come back to live with me. For no one, even her husband, would take good care of my daughter like I would.
It is not a big fight that she had with her husband. But I could not control my cunning self-centred urge to use this chance to separate her from her husband. This would mean she could live with me forever along with my grand children.
No matter what you might think of me. I am still a hero to my daughter. She would still hug me with love and warmth murmuring how I am the greatest dad in the world. You might think I am selfish, crooked or sadist but she would still attribute all these to how much I love her.
While I sit at this rusted steel bench in the busy yet lonely park and run all these through my mind, I have to remind you that there are quite a few fathers who belong to my breed. I might have company in many fathers of daughters. Some express it like me even if what we wish for doesn't happen. And some others might bury the thought deep inside, labelling it the devil. Others don't have to understand.
And anyway it is difficult to explain my last thirty years of life to you, who is ready to judge me in less than thirty minutes of conversation. By the way, I forgot to mention who you are: you are the seasoned side of my already wringled brain.
After all, I just chose to break the taboo and to vent out.
Vishy
29 Mar 2017.